Yes, you can be single and independent. But companionship and love are our most basic needs as human beings. Do not let your fear hold you back from attaining happiness in your life. If you say you want a good man then accept him. When a good man presents himself do not push him off to the side. The Law of Attraction states that we attract what we want. If you put out positive energy into the world you will begin to attract positive things. So the next time you find yourself dealing with the thought that there are no good men in this world, think about the men you passed up and never gave a chance. MEN, the same goes for you. I too, should take my own advice! Real shit!!